Although Thanksgiving is obviously a purely American holiday, Brooks and I did our best to celebrate it to the fullest down here in Guatemala. As part of that celebration, we decided to organize a Thanksgiving dinner for all of the kids at the orphanage; this decision resulted in a very busy, yet totally rewarding, week. I realize now that it was kind of a crazy task to take on, but I think in order to accomplish anything here in Guatemala – and at an orphanage with 100+ kids – it takes a little bit of crazy mixed in with your planning to make it a possibility.
Tuesday morning Brooks and I met with our friends Guisela and Ubaldo to talk about all of our recent ideas for Fundación Salvación. Although we talked about some other ideas we all had, the main focus of the coffee date was to share with them our plans to put on the Thanksgiving dinner. Brooks and I are so blessed to know Guisela and Ublado, and even more blessed that their heart has grown so much for the orphanage that they have the desire to love and spoil these kids as much as Brooks and I do. After our three hour, fast-paced meeting, we had successfully called a few crucial people in Xela (including one woman that would cook everything and another woman that would bring nine pumpkin pies for us), had made plans for food shopping, and had ironed out all of the other details. Without the help of these two, the Thanksgiving dinner that resulted would not have been as nice or as well executed as it was. I will say it again – we are so lucky to know them.
Brooks and I spent every spare moment we had this past week working on the Thanksgiving meal, including making placemats with every child stating three things they were thankful for about a friend, making Indian and pilgrim hats, and making turkey hands with every kid, decorated with their name and one thing they were thankful for. Although none of these crafts sound too difficult on their own, the process of tracking down and sitting down every child in the orphanage was a pretty incredible feat.
Wednesday evening Brooks and I had a little break from the Thanksgiving craziness by attending a going away party for one of Brooks’ housemates, German. German had lived with Brooks’ host mom, Cony, for over three years now, and obviously knew Cony and our family very well. We had a delicious dinner of tamales and bread followed by a no-bake cheesecake Brooks and I made, layered between short going away speeches for German. Although I didn’t know him well, it was very sweet to hear the kind things everyone had to say about him, and the love and friendship that was alive in the room that night was beautiful to be a part of. Aside from amazing moments at the orphanage, it’s times like these that I step back and realize how blessed I am to be here.
Thursday evening, continuing with the Thanksgiving theme, Brooks and I helped organize our own Thanksgiving meal with our family. Brooks and I made a quick shopping trip to Paiz, and came home to nap and make our apple pies, homemade stuffing, and gravy. Unfortunately, neither cranberry sauce, pumpkin pie filling, nor real gravy exist in Huehue, so we made due and improvised. At 3:30pm Brooks and I began preparing the apple pies in a relaxed fashion, but once he left at 4pm to Skype with his family, I realized we still had a lot to do and not enough time to do it in. I quickly starting putting together the pies, and rushed to make the stuffing in a kind of haphazard fashion, which luckily didn’t affect its tastiness later. Brooks and I had been expecting our other three Huehue gringa friends to join us, but unfortunately all were unavailable; fortunately though, we knew three other Americans that could join us and help with the cooking as well as the sentiment of Thanksgiving. In the end we had a total of 17 people; our Guatemalan family, their friend Manuela, Cony, her two house guests Juanita and German, our friend Katie who had studied at the Spanish school, one of her friends from Aguacatán, and two other American friends of hers currently living at Lake Atitlán doing Masters research. We had a delicious dinner of potatoes, stuffing, chicken, and green beans, all topped by our makeshift gravy, which had been made from something called “cow tail soup”. It was fun evening, and after going around the table saying one thing we were thankful for, we enjoyed apple pie and the perfect full Thanksgiving feeling.
Our Thanksgiving coma unfortunately didn’t last long, as Brooks and I went to the market at 7am the next day with our friend Guisela to buy all the ingredients for our Fundación Thanksgiving. The proportions of food we bought was incredible, including 40 pounds of potatoes, 35 pounds of green beans, and 25 pounds of apples. After weaving our way through the open-air market and finding all of our ingredients, we went over to Paiz to buy our final ingredient – the turkeys. We ended up with three 20-pound turkeys, which luckily was enough to feed 120 (those birds are not cheap in Guatemala). After our shopping spree I went home to rest (I had, and still have, a very persistent cold), while Brooks went to the orphanage to unload the food and help with a scavenger hunt one of the other volunteers had organized. Friday evening Brooks and I were back at the orphanage again, finishing up with our hand turkeys and placemats, and attending a good-bye ceremony for two of the other volunteers, Lela and Maribel. They had some amazing performances by the kids, including a skit and several dances, the most inspiring performed by some of the mentally and physically handicapped at the orphanage. Every time a volunteer leaves it forces me to think about my own departure (which is coming up unfortunately soon), and still I am having an impossible time processing this goodbye. It’s going to be tough. After doing turkey hands until every last child was in bed, Brooks and I finally climbed into beds in our respective rooms (him with parvulos and me with pequeñas) and had obnoxious dreams about hand turkeys and mashed potatoes for 120.
The next morning we awoke at 6am with the kids, went home to nap a bit and shower, and enjoyed a delicious breakfast before it was time to go back to the orphanage to pull off our Thanksgiving day. At one point I told Brooks I was really hoping we could just fast forward to the night and the meal; I was not looking forward to what was ahead of us. We arrived at the orphanage around 9am, and finished some final placemats and made a giant tree on the wall with the turkey hands. Luckily, unbeknownst to us, the woman who was making our Thanksgiving dinner, Pilar, had arrived the night before and was already in the kitchen, organizing the older girls to help and starting her food preparations. I cannot express enough how grateful I was to have her there, doing everything for the food and leaving us entirely to worry about the other details. Around 11am Brooks and I greeted our friend from Xela, Doris, who had come to the orphanage that day to teach a course to the older kids on how to make soaps. Doris teaches these courses for a living, and was kind enough to give us a free session; the kids absolutely loved it, and later were in Sandra’s office giving her the schpeal about the products they had made. After Doris’ class we had plans to join all of the volunteers, Sandra, Doris, Guisela, Ubaldo and others for lunch, but soon realized (once they hadn’t left by 1pm when plans were to leave by 12pm) that Guatemalan unpunctuality would win over this time, and Brooks and I had to eat lunch elsewhere that would be a little quicker. We got a ride over to Telepizza, and after enjoying our pizza and ice cream break, were headed back to the orphanage to plan and organize some more. Although it was a busy day not without stress, I really enjoyed spending an entire day at the orphanage, having small moments to just hang out with the kids. It made the gift we gave them that evening even better after having spent the entire day enjoying their company. One of my favorite moments came in the afternoon when I was supervising Jose and Daniel, brothers, making their placemats. I was sitting with Israel on my lap and other kids were coming in and out, and Jose and Daniel’s mom, Migdalia, was watching and laughing with me at the cute things her kids were writing and drawing.
By 3:15pm the kids were eating snack, and Brooks was heading over to the fútbol stadium to prep the goals. Because in America watching football is such a big part of our Thanksgiving celebration, Brooks had the idea that it would be really fun for the kids to play a game of fútbol (or soccer) in the professional Huehue stadium on their Thanksgiving day. Myself and the rest of the kids left at 3:45pm to met him at the stadium, and after a short walk we were inside of the large stadium, not impressive by American standards but which left the kids completely awe-struck. While Brooks and older kids played fútbol, I found myself watching the little ones, making sure they didn’t fall on the concrete stairs they were jumping around.
After playing soccer, we headed back with the group at 5:45pm (most of the group at least. Brooks stayed with some that wanted to finish out their game), and sent the kids to all of their rooms to get dressed up in their nicest clothes. This was now crunch time for Brooks and I; once he returned, we put all the placemats and hats in everyone’s place, and made sure the food was going to be hot and ready to go. By 7:15pm, after trying to sit down all the kids and tape their Indians hats on (which a lot of the girls refused to wear), we realized the only way we were going to stop them from getting up and wandering around was by starting. Brooks and I made a quick speech about the history of Thanksgiving and the meaning of Thanksgiving nowadays, and then rushed to the kitchen to start putting food on plates. Luckily we had a lot of volunteers there that night, so the work of putting mashed potatoes, green bean salad, a piece of turkey and gravy on each plate seemed to go surprisingly fast. We quickly had 125 plates served, with some food leftover. Side note: Although the traditional way to serve a Thanksgiving turkey is to carve it, we had neither a sharp knife, an electric knife, nor anyone in the kitchen that knew how to carve a turkey. The resulting bird distribution ended in Migdalia hacking at the turkeys with a butcher’s knife, ripping the bird apart. Not the prettiest, but some of the lucky boys did end up getting an entire turkey leg from this. Along with our Thanksgiving meal, Pilar had made a delicious apple cider that the kids drank every last drop of.
Brooks and I had about 10 minutes to sit down and eat our food before we were up again pulling pies out of the fridge. Unfortunately, it was getting late for the kids, and they were fading fast. Some had fallen asleep before the dinner was even served, and some were really grumpy because of their tiredness. One boy even cried because he felt his friend hadn’t colored his placemat enough. Yeah, tired, emotional children. Some of the younger kids didn’t make it through pie time, but those that did were rewarded with a delicious pumpkin pie, something I don’t think they had ever seen before. After pie it was time for bed, and all of the kids started to slowly trickle off to bed, cleaning up a bit and walking up to us with wide eyes saying how “rico” the dinner was. It was a delicious meal, and although it was pretty chaotic, I’m still very proud and content with the results. Brooks and I, after cleaning up a bit, got a ride home from Doris and feel asleep quickly with another grand night at Fundación Salvación behind us.
I am so thankful for the help we received to make this meal possible, including Doris who brought the pies, Guisela and Ubaldo who took us shopping and made a lot of connections for us, Pilar who cooked the food, and Migdalia, who although was not in charge of serving this one meal at Fundación (she’s the head cook at the orphanage), helped out immensely anyway. Also I am so thankful for Brooks’ cousins who donated the money that actually made this happen. We are blessed, blessed people; this will certainly be a Thanksgiving I will never forget.